When my wife and I were planning our day of holy matrimony, we talked in depth about the giving the bride and groom wedding speech.  Essentially, we wanted to make sure that we at least appeared that we were moving in the same direction.  I did not want to ruin the element of surprise on the big day by telling her my entire wedding speech.

When you consider brides speeches, father of the bride speech, and the best man speech, their must be some continuity.  It does not mean that you all have to practice and compare notes verbatim with each other.  It’s just a good idea to have some general knowledge of what everyone else is saying.  It would be a complete disaster if you repeated stories or told conflicting events.  The best man is going to be the only wild card as the best man speech and wedding toast are reserved to sort of roast the groom.  Some grooms have no clue of this and are taken by complete surprise.  Just be prepared and suck up the ribs and jokes.

The grooms wedding speech does not have to be a master piece.  Their are so many groom wedding speech examples online that will assist you on this important day.  However,  I would be careful on what you read.  Everyone seems to have some great ideas that they never have tried.  Stick with the guys who have actually given a decent wedding grooms speech.

Perfect Wedding Speech Examples?

I am not a true believer in anything perfect.  Don’t aim for a perfect bride and groom speech-as those kind of speeches are dry and dull.  My wife and I planned to deliver congruent speeches from different points of view.  We even had a little fun with when she contradicted a few of my stories from her perspective.  It got the wedding guests laughing and me caught with “pants down”.    Groom speech jokes are perfectly fine as long as they are clean and do not embarrass anyone except the best man.  Relax, this is a day meant for enjoyment.

Groom Wedding Toast

You will be giving the groom toast, so make sure that you have a few some things jotted down on your note card or at least memorized.  You will be thanking key people that helped with the wedding.  When it’s time for your toast, take out that note card and use it to help you make the best toast ever.  Make sure that you first thank the parents of the bride for allowing you to be part of their family.  Tell them how excited you are to be in their family.  Look your beautiful bride in her eyes and tell her how much that you love her and that you are excited about spending your life together and growing old with each other.

Don’t get too sappy and keep it short and sweet.